Controversial counseling expert, Counselor Lutterodt has disclosed on Kastle FM in Cape Coast during an interview with Amansan Krakye that any woman who spends heavy on a man with the expectation of being married is either ugly, overused or lacking suitors.
“If you’re a woman and you take care of a man and spend heavy on him with the expectation that he’ll marry you then that woman must be either ugly, overused or no one actually loves her,” he said.
“Because if it’s true that you’re beautiful with all the vital statistics in place and your levels are appealing to a lot of men, you don’t sponsor a man to come and marry you,” he added.
Responding to the issue of expectation that arise from sponsoring a partner during relationships, Counselor Lutterodt fumed on the Kastle Drive show that it is only ‘fools’ and ‘uncivilized’ people who spend heavy on those they’re not married to.
“The only ones that we spend money on is the husband or wife that is we spend on those that we are legally married to. So during ordinary relationships you don’t have to spend too much on your lover,” he advised.
“Anyone that spends heavy in ordinary relationship is a big fool and you’re not civilized because in the first place you should have legitimacy in trying to give to somebody,” he fumed on Kastle FM.
“If it’s a gift you know or if it’s a help you are giving as a result of being an NGO or philanthropist we should also know,” he told Amansan Krakye the host.
Counselor Lutterodt ended “In a relationship you can’t justify your giving and it doesn’t make sense to take care of someone and expect the person to marry you in return.”
Source: Amansan Krakye (kastlefmonline.com)